There is a big difference between a spray and abuse.
I would expect, having never herd one, Clarko’s spray wouldn’t be calling the guy a Gay ■■■■■ who belongs in a petting Zoo. But I bet he would have video tape up and replay a weak act 20 times whilst explaining loudly and directly why that kind of act is not warranted in his football team. I wouldn’t be surprised if he then threatened players with their job if they didn’t improve.
Most of the internet barrelling of player falls into the abuse category.