You should be more annoyed because you love the club. This administration is very fond of wheedling every dollar they can from members. It’s not something we should accept and won’t change unless we let them know it’s not acceptable.
I thought once you started a membership you consented to being charged for that membership until you stopped it. Which may be difficult since the membership is in the Ex’s name but your credit card is attached to it.
There is probably a small line of text somewhere bringing this to your attention. With on line bank statements, it is easy for people to lose track of what they are paying for. In my humble opinion all subscriptions should require an opt in every 12 months to bring the subscription (or pay by month bill) to your attention and allow you to stop it if no longer used. What would complicate matters on this occasion might be that the Ex has said yes thank you, I’m not paying for it. I would email the club with the circumstances and let them know you do not give authorisation for any further charges for that member on your account. Just incase she decides high mark membership is more her style.
Cannot agree with this, it is easy to look at your bank accounts every day to check what is happening, the excuse that I did not know is pretty poor with internet access these days.