http://edition.cnn.com/2014/10/28/living/hollaback-10-hours-walking-in-nyc/index.html
If someone knows how to embed this that would be appreciated, thanks.
Basically the video is a summary of the kind of harrassment women have to put up with in NYC just walking along the street. She's not wearing provocative clothing, she's not a stunner, she's not interacting at all with those that she passes.
It was filmed so people who don't experience it might appreciate what women go through and donate to the cause to try and help end it.
Now, I think it's a bit of a beat up. Kind of. SOME of the things said are over the top, calling her sexy, commenting on her butt, especially the guys that follow her and walk intimidatingly beside her... apparently there's some gestures we can't see too that are obviously unnecessary.
Some other things are pretty mild, like "hey baby", "How you doin?", guys winking etc. Some of it seems to me like it's just being polite
So apparently there were 100 instances of harrassment that happened in 10 hours of walking, so on average every 6 minutes, which in a major city doesn't seem that bad, at least to me, considering the number of people you walk past.
I'm really interested though. What's ok and what is not? Some of these guys are deadset sleazebags but I'm sure some just see the street as a social environment whereas other people just want to move through the urban environment as a ghost without being acknowledged. Also if it's their 'turf' or 'hood' then they feel like they can chat to anyone who walks through it - they might not feel so confident if they are out of their comfort zone.
I know when I'm a tourist it seems that I seem to get harrassed more often on the street, at LEAST every 6 minutes, but mainly by people selling me stuff, I don't get propositioned for sex or asked out (unfortunately lol), or just generally commented on, so I guess this was an eyeopener.
Not only are the few serious bits of harrassment enough to make me want to help stop it, but I can see that it would really wear you down after a while, to the point where you'd want to always get a cab or never walk alone.
Personally, if I see a woman walking towards me in a quiet/dark street I'm likely to cross the road just to make her more comfortable. Since I grew up in a country town, if its in the main street then Im more likely to make eye contact and nod politely, but in a busy city I pretty much remain 'ghost-like" as that seems the convention.
Thoughts?