Ffs. What a way to spend an hour , wading through this rubbish.
6) he's under no obligation to discuss his family, kids situation etc. So shut up about it.
Ok, I'll add more depth as to why I was asking this question. I am trying to understand DT's point of view. As it currently stands, I do not agree with his position in this thread (and the other thread that was closed) and where my question originated). I truly am trying to get a bigger picture understanding on where he is coming from. If I can get a better understanding on where he is coming from, then I have hopefully have a better understanding of his argument.
If DT responded with "None of your business" I would absolutely say "fair enough" no questions asked, but I couldn't even get that level of engagement. There was no "discussion", which is what a discussion board is for. The ONLY engagement I got was a jibe about not going to detective school any time soon, and even that was not in direct response to any post I made.