I still don’t think we make the finals. There’s a chance we make it, but also a chance we don’t. Even if we do make the finals, there’s a good chance we lose that game.
But it doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy the wins along the way. It doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy watching a player develop. It doesn’t mean I can’t watch respectfully as an old codger finishes up his career.
It also doesn’t mean I go on a journey from thread to thread with negative post after negative post after every loss.
There’s an impression that some posters think by being negative they are providing ‘balance’. Those same people are more likely to only post ‘positive’ things when we have turned a corner. For some that corner is the way we defend from week to week, how aggressive we are from week to week, how well we finish of the year, to winning a final and to others it’s winning a premiership.
It’s clear that being negative gets you further on the internet because whatever is being argued becomes a pile on. The positive stuff doesn’t have as much pull as the negative stuff. So we’re pretty much wired to be negative more often than not.
It’s also clear that some prefer to be negative because it gets the attention and having other negative people back them up makes them feel good. So be it.
Maybe I’m just built different. My favourite years were the years where expectation was pretty low. Most people love watching games from our 2000 season, but for me I got more enjoyment out of the 1998 and 1999 seasons (excluding the prelim) because it grew as the years went on. Same with 1993. How that went from a ‘development’ year to a premiership was amazing. 1989 and 1990 were also a favourite year to watch games because again we were building towards something great (even though it didn’t quite eventuate). I was too young to experience the 1982 and 1983 seasons leading up to our back to back premierships so I have no connection with those years.
I’ve pointed to the Richmond 2017 year as the model of how fans will react and ride the wave of our next premiership. It wasn’t smooth sailing. They had finals failures leading up to it. The year before they ended the season with a 100+ loss and fans wanted the board wiped out, throw everything out and start again (sound familiar?). Even in 2017 it wasn’t smooth sailing. In round 6, they got smashed by 10+ goals. Round 7 to 9 they had their Ninthmond moments by losing close games and having the ‘2 minutes of the worst football ever’ as coined by Paul Roos against GWS. The negativity around the club was pretty high at that point. And they went on to win multiple premierships from there.
There was some questioning whether ‘Essington’ was vanquished this past week. Or that a win would end ‘Essington’. History shows it won’t. We will have Essington results right up to our next premiership year (whenever that is). I fully expect it to occur. But it doesn’t mean I live in perpetual negativity and depression because ‘my team is farked’. That is sports. You are more likely to fail at sports than succeed if you are of that ‘all or nothing’ mindset. And in all honesty, sports probably isn’t for you if all you see is premiership wins and losses.
I don’t expect this post to change any habits. I fully expect as soon as we lose our next game that the usual threads will start being popular and the knives will be out for Hep, Kelly, Laverde, Jones as well as the ‘why is Martin played on the wing’ posts, as well as ‘play Tsatas, Hayes, Roberts, Caddy’, etc. You know, the usually throwing everything out of the cot because we think it’ll turn out just like every other year (even though the chances are it will occur again).
It’s the same things every fan base goes through. Melbourne had it. Even Geelong wanted to get rid of their coach and rebuild after a decade of failure. And even the Carlton and North losses recently where there are posts from Bigfooty about how their fans react, they are pretty similar to what occurs here after a loss.
I’d be interested to know what the traffic is like on this website in the 3 or 4 days after a loss is versus after a win. I’d say there’s more after a loss, but that’s maybe my bias. Sports is perfectly built for social media.