The mental health thread

Hi all.
I rarely post on here as poor mental health has been a very sensitive issue for both myself and two other members of my family.

That said, I would like to share with you that after decades of ill health, my 30 year old daughter took her life on Monday afternoon. My daughter was a very lovely, caring woman with terrible anxiety, depression and self-esteem. As you’d expect, all the family, friends and our church community are gutted. I cry bitterly in terrible waves of debilitating emotion.

Although I have met only a handful of you, and even then, at only one club function, I do feel part of a wider family of online Essendon tragics. This is a great place to be educated about the world, to lament our team and be distracted from the troubles each of us inevitably face. As such I’d like to thank you for enabling me to share my sadness at this time.
Blessings
sweatyman

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I dont know what to say as I feel anything I say would feel pretty hollow. So all I can say is that I’m sorry to hear that and you have my condolences.

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I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. You are part of the online community so please continue to post if you need. I hope your faith and community provide a source of comfort at the most difficult time.

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That’s absolutely terrible news.

I can’t imagine the loss and grief you and family must be going through.

Take care brother, we are all here for you.

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My condolences to you and your family. Please feel free to post as you travel the long road of grief.

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I’m so sorry to hear that mate :cry:. Check in whenever you need.

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Iam truely sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Your blitz family is here for you 100 hundred percent and if there is anything we can do as a community to help don’t be afraid to ask

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I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear daughter. Nothing can prepare you for such a loss and how low you are feeling right now. You will fondly carry her memory with you for all the rest of your days, as you should. Hold on to those memories, for all they are worth. When it all gets a bit too much at some stage in the future, don’t try and hold it in and soldier on, post in here knowing we have your best interests at heart.

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I’m so sorry to hear this awful news.

I don’t think I could say anything that would be of comfort at this time.

But if there comes a time that I can support you in any way, just let me know.

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So sorry for your loss. I admire your bravery and honesty in your post.

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Such awful news to read. My thoughts are with you and the family. We are always here for you and for anyone who may need it.

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Oh, that’s so terrible, I’m a bit lost for words. Deep condolences. May your daughter rest in peace.

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Horrible thing to hear. Look after yourself mate and keep talking.

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@sweatyman thinking of you and your family.

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Thank you @Heffsgirl. We have Kate’s thanksgiving service tomorrow afternoon at our church. Going to be a big crowd and a tough day, but we are grateful for Kate’s life, as difficult a journey it was for her.

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Best wishes to you and the family sweatyman.

Don’t be hard on yourself.

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If you wish to chat at a later date, my grandma also passed by taking her own life, so I may be able to lend an ear and maybe provide some words that may help you as they did my mum. Take all the time you need though.

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Deeply sorry you have to farewell your daughter like this, all round the wrong way. We’ll say a prayer for her, you and yours tomorrow Sweaty.

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Still thinking of you today.

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