I watched a Bill Murray movie not sure of the name where his Grandkid was being bullied at school by a much bigger kid. He show him how to bring his hand up under the nose and break it . Was very successful in the movie, think I will teach my Grandkids.
In my experience bullies will respond to one thing - greater force.
It shouldnât be that way. I wished the mediation etc helped and maybe for some it does. But Iâm not risking it with my kids.
Iâm gen X and thankfully the internet wasnât a thing during high school. The online bullying deeply concerns me. I talk to the heff kids about the impacts words have and to come to me immediately if they are targeted. Not sure how I will handle it but I suspect it wonât be pleasant for the perpetrators.
I think itâs also important to not be passive bystanders.
I am a boomer and there were no computers when I was at high school, or calculators, other than the logarithmic tables or a slide rule, if you were clever enough to know how to work one.
There were two major bullies when I was at high school, one became a policeman, the other sold shoes. Even back then, teachers did nothing, and parents really never got involved, so you learned to fight or run.
I seem to think if your child (or grandchild) are being bullied then you need to react and intervene in some way.
unregulated social media is all pervasive . some adults canât cope with that , I would say most children canât possibly cope . I would rather see the government lean hard on the likes of Facebook tic tok ect to force them to make it safer and commit to this as a permanent thing , constant review and improvement rather than a ban. I think there will be lots of unintended consequences as a result of this. theyâve been told by many experts so they canât say we couldnât have know this would happen . itâs a nice gesture but not based in reality. itâs populist politics at its worst
in my case, the bloke selling shoes became a really nice bloke and had a string of shoe shops before he died.
The cop, who I will not name, got promoted and then involved with some dubious people and departed Victoria Police to become a property developer. Still a bully I hear.
I get the sentiment and it makes for a great slow clap moment in an 80s movie but the reality is that many bullies will simply physically destroy the majority of the kids they bully and a more recent issue is gangs of kids doing the bullying. One of the gangs at my sonâs previous school was recently involved in a serious assault involving knives. The reality is very few kids would have any chance standing up to these gangs and violence will only lead to more violence.
$700 for a two-bedder in my neighbourhood would be cheap. The situation is rapidly spiralling out of control. Youâd think that a PM who continually reminds us all of how hard he had it growing up would be on the front foot with this, but he has been disappointing again. I really feel for those trying to rent in Sydney.