Ive said this before but I moved to Melbourne in August 2001, just in time to see us lose our last GF (I remember telling people "yeah, Ive been told to go for EFC, but I don't really care about footy, it's for bogans" during the GF. I started barracking for the bombers because I was told to (cousins already in Vic), and by 2004 I was hooked, and still am.
I dunno, despite our lack of success we've had some pretty awesome wins, and champions of the game, and it helps that I can forget about the losses pretty quickly.
This whole sorry saga has made me cynical of the league but more passionate about the club, and just re-enforced why I love it so much.
As for the rule changes, and interpretations, it's frustrating and makes me think the league is corrupt, but if you are good enough you should be able to take the umpires out of it.
One thing that helped get me into AFL was the Melbourne media. I was actually more interested in watching a game because I knew more about the players through the media (compared to NRL at the time, which I'd grown up with). Everygame had a back story, either someone coming back from injury, someone playing for their career, some milestone being reached, or something ore sinister (drug cloud, coach to be sacked etc).
Now the media just never shuts up and I can see they just work to a formula, and it disgusts me, especially considering our treatment over the last 18 months.
So yeah, I love our club, and I love watching our games, but you can consider me an automatic devil's advocate for any footy drama.