I don’t get rapists. I think there is some sort of mental illness there, or at the very least under developed capacity. How having sex with someone that doesnt want it is possible is beyond me. How on earth does a man find that arousing?
I do disagree for example our pre historic ancestors clubbed females over the head and dragged them into caves. If you look at the animal kingdom, I dont think any or many species act like that. ie. there is mostly recipricol courtship. Maybe i’m wrong. Would love say David attenboroughs take on it.
My thoughts on violence is that it only takes one aggressive person to create a violent incident, and that’s not nearly always the man, although it is the man whose violence which causes injury.
I dont think anyone could force themselves sexually on another, it takes a sicko.
However I do think everyone has the capacity to be somewhat violent, most arent though because they are rational. (from say throwing I dont know a pencil, to punching someone)